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It was raining today

and I wished you were here

on my bike, behind me

holding me, hugging me

loving arms around me

your warm breath on me

but it never happened

it never did, may be someday

but it may never will...

yours, mine and the bike’s

all hearts revving up in sync

piercing the pearls of rain

while the taste still lasts

of the food that they served

while the glimpse still lasts

of the smile that you served

told me what all i can do

to see it again, again and again

that good night smile you gave,

you shouldnt have;

that touch of your hand i still feel,

you shouldnt have;

but when you did,

it left a wanting for more;

more of you, more of that,

but still I’m glad, that I had

that which I may never have.

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IIR 1 : Opportunities, Reservations and promotion

IIR 1 : If I (Ever) Ruled

Single unified reservation, promotion system where every opportunity in any form will be offered only to the women of the section of the community or a group which wants such a benefit.

Sections of the society will be identified (dalits, sc, st, muslims, christians etc.,) and those who seek reservation in jobs, financial aid or reservation of any form or type will be women first and men next. ex : If there are 100 seats reserved in STEM field of education then it will first be offered to the females of the reserved class and then the remaining will be given to the males. So far most of such opportunities are grabbed by men and the status of their community is still at such a lower state that even after decades of independence they need this affirmative action. If this is offered to females first and then males then it will be greatly effective in 2 ways as below.

1. Hyper gamy is mainly followed by females so if females are having their status improved by such affirmative action in their community/group then males will be indirectly forced to up their game and effort to be in  a higher status than the females so that they can be eligible for the females.
Currently,  males get all the opportunities defined in such affirmative action and thus they will be eligible for the females with least or no effort which also forces the females of such communities to be backward, oppressed and have no say in any family matters such as family planning.

2. In almost all the cases where both males and females are educated they dont have more children than they can afford to take care of... In most cases they have just 2 or a maximum of 3 kids per couple. This will control the population too. Uncontrolled population growth of a community is one of the reason of poverty and backwardness.

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IIR 0 : If I Ruled

This is a series of blogs which i am planning to write about what I would do if i ever ruled. This is not me hoping for a dictatorship with me as the dictator but this is me listing out the things that I would do If I ever be in a position to make rules, laws or even influence them. Hopefully someone will read them and implement.

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The kind of people I don't have as guests no more

1. They cause sleep deprivation
So everyone has their own sleeping pattern and comfort. I like mine to be quiet and dark.
a) It's annoying to have someone who has to have a fan turned on which makes me feel that I am sleeping under a chopper or a helicopter. It's just noisy and cold for me.
b) your body gets used to your snoring and can sleep with it but you can't tolerate someone else snoring in your bed, Atleast not me. I can't sleep anywhere where it is not quiet. I admit I snore slightly but I don't appreciate someone waking me or shaking me when I start to snore a bit bcz everytime then do that to break my snoring it takes 30 minutes for me to get back to sleep.
c) they want the light turned on and I love my room to be dark when I sleep.
2. They make my place messier than what it was
If you ask me Its not polite to go to someone's place and litter everywhere before you leave. If I visit someone's place and I want to be able to visit them again, then I will try not to make they're messier than what it was.. If possible I will gladly name it neater if not cleaner before I leave.

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Feminism --> MGTOW the cashcow for the short sighted capitalists

There are some who are of the view that feminism will destroy the economy, starting from the west but on the contrary it might make the capitalist's eyes bigger and wider.
Let us say that there is a family of 6 with 2 kids, parents and grand parents. This is the scene of India few years ago. This is very bad for the economy since they will now have just 1 house which is bad for the real estate business. They will now have just 1 TV, 1 home phone, 1 radio, 1 car for all which is bad for the economy. Now let us have the broken families of the west where they have to take appointment to meet their parents (which most often will be more than 2). Now grand pa has his own house, grand ma has her own house, husband and wife are taking a divorce and they have a separate house, their kids are of age now and they have their own place to stay. In short now all the materials are 6x than the earlier time. Feminism is greatly helping this cause and if everyone becomes a MGTOW then it is even better for the economy. Now instead of 2 we have 4 people fighting for the custody of the kid. Let us say a gay couple now wants a baby and hire a surrogate mother and the egg was from another lady of their preference. Now the there are potentially 4 people who can go to court to claim the custody of the child. In the case of MGTOW it is 3. If everyone in the world becomes single and start having kids like this method of surrogacy and borrowed eggs then we have some individuals who have to buy every thing for themselves without having to share anything that they buy. Everyone in the world has a house, their own car, their own bike, their own everything since they don't have anyone to share it. This is also great for the government because now they have more to govern where nobody is in support of anyone as a family and nobody is going to back anyone as a family; everyone is for themselves. Division of family helped in favor of capitalism and now it seems that was not enough.
8/9/2015
So you might wonder what next? How will our species progress? How will our species survive if nobody is having kids or the population starts decreasing? The answer is simple. Then it will be even more prosperous situation for the pharmas and corporates involved in the artificial uterus technology where you can have babies without the need of a women or a man. Science has already progressed to a level where one can have human off-springs with just one gender. Imagine what happens when both the gender's physical, reproductive and other needs are met by private corporations with some cost attached but not each other for free. Instead of man and women meeting each other's physical needs for free now they pay for a corporation for their needs, just like they pay for a cooking machine, washing machine, virtual reality tech etc., instead of a situation of their ancestors where they had it for free from each other and it was a whole lot better than anything that they could ever have. Just Imagine...

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Why do men get paid more than women?

These are my cents on this ongoing debate all over the world.

1. In an unlikely event of a boat sinking, women get to leave with their kids and for some unexplained reason men get to stay on the boat to die.
2. At times of war and crisis for some unexplained reason men pick up arms to protect their women and children and contribute 99% to 100% of martyrdom during a crisis.
3. at times of crisis like a hostage situation they negotiate for women first and men get to be treated as expendables.
4. Women experience mood swings during periods., that is 3-5 days before periods and 2-3 days after the period which sums upto 10 days and such mood swings contribute negatively at work.
5. In any society men are expected by the society to provide for the women even during casual dates for her movie, shopping, dinner, commuting expenses etc.,
6. Men contribute almost 100% in all the physically challenging/demanding work environments like mining, construction etc.,
7. A women needs time off work for maternity which can be a issue for a business if the role requires the executive to maintain constant connection with the clients. ex: hedge funds.
8. Men are more likely to work till they retire than women. Most women may opt out of work and choose to be a home maker after 2-3 kids.
   continued....

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Favorite Thing About You

(i)wish you did not have that face

(i)wish you did not have that scar

(i)wish you dint have that cute teeth misaligned from the rest

bcoz the best thing about you

is everything about you

so forget what they say

you are the best of all the rest=[rpt]

hide not paintless nails of your hands

hide not unwaxed pretty legs

and yes there is no need to hide that ungroomed hair

[rpt]

its okay being unseen

its okay being ignored

but beloved with me you will always be loved

[rpt]

the spotless moon is no moon

the thornless rose is no rose

may be you were made this way to suit my taste

[rpt]

wish not the curves you do not have

wish not the skin that your friend has

if you havent heard it yet, you are my favourite thing about you

[rpt]

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The Soulmate

I often wonder why always people try to waste their life around perfect, perfect thing or the perfect one. The whole objectivity of life is the  journey to the road to perfection from the point of imperfection. You know that infinity is not going to end and you will never be close to its end, no matter how hard you try.

If you believe that there is always an area of improvement then infinity should be the perfection because only infinity gets better than what it was every time and all the time. So if perfection is infinity then you will never find your perfect one, soul mate, the one or made for each other guy or girl because if you have found them then you have only found the one who is better among those whom you have met so far but not 'the one'.  If people change over a period time is true then everyone has a different perfect one every day in the universe. I am not the same person (physically, mentally) compared to yesterday or tomorrow. Let us say if at all there is some supernatural way of figuring out a perfect partner for someone then as per the physical and mental health, nature and growth I might be the perfect one someone like me in another country but tomorrow the perfect one for me might be someone entirely different. Let me elaborate a little more. Let us say that tonight I see a movie and that movie change my whole perception towards life by tomorrow, then I am a different person by tomorrow. Since I am different person by tomorrow, my perfect one will also be a different one by tomorrow as per my new views towards life, world, myself and others. Yesterday I might have been someone who was a non vegetarian but today after seeing a video of a slaughterhouse and how the animals are suffered, tortured and ripped apart forcefully, I might become a vegan by tomorrow. So If I am a vegan today my perfect one should be someone who respects, responds and resonates towards my feelings about animals, birds and nature where as until yesterday I was a meat eater and thus I would have been okay with someone with a fur jacket.
The point is perfection is a myth which is only useful for the entertainment industry to make songs, music, movies and merchandise around it but not for real life. Now I begin to understand why my native culture at bharat gave importance to developing love towards the one whom you have married than chasing the wild invisible goose of love, perfection and soul mate. Arranged marriages are more successful in a gigantic proportion against the love marriages.
Let us say you are playing a game and you are told that no matter what you do, how you play, you are going to win and the game has been rigged, judges have been bought to make sure odds will always favor you; Won't you find that game boring ? What fun is there in playing a video-game where you know the whole layout of the game as if you are the one who made it and also there are 'no challenges', 'points of curiosity' , 'moments of suspense' etc., missing against another experience where you have played a game for the first time and at many levels you lost, you died, reborn, you got frustrated and threw the gamepad/keyboard/mouse/joystick away, screamed, yelled but somehow you finally won. I make this statement very boldly today. "If god grants the perfect one or the soul mate to everyone then the human race will be cannibalized and vanish" . It is definitely not about finding a sculpture on a mountain but it is about finding a suitable rock on which you are confident that you can work on it and then make a sculpture out of it. your life partner should also be the same. You are wasting your precious time if you think you are searching for a perfect one or a soul mate because that is logically impossible. Here in my country of 1.4 billion people arranged marriages happen and more than 98% of them last forever, yes forever. It is all about 2 individuals ability to transform each other together and that and those which surround them to achieve their means and definition of a good life.

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